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The Right Kind of Beauty

October 24, 2011 by fabfrugalmama

Lately I’ve been hearing a lot about kids’ self-esteem and what we as parents can do to foster a healthy sense of self in our little ones. This topic is on my radar because I have a 4-year-old who loves princesses and has a great imagination. Whether she’s dressing up as her favourite fairytale character or entertaining us with her rendition of a princess dancing at the ball, her idea of beauty is being shaped as we speak.

While I have nothing against playing princess (I loved to do that as a kid, too!), I realize how vital my role is in influencing her views on beauty and self-worth while she’s still young. So, I’ve made a real effort to not stress outward beauty when complimenting my daughter. She’s strong, smart, brave, helpful, kind, loving and a whole lot of other adjectives! And, when someone else pays her a compliment about her outward appearance, I try to talk with her afterward about how a person’s real beauty comes from inside. I remind her that if you’re not a good person on the inside, your true beauty can’t show on the outside. We put emphasis more on having a “beautiful heart” than external beauty.

Now, I’m not completely naïve in thinking I can shield her from superficial comments about her looks. But, I can do my best to instill in her the knowledge that, despite her lovely exterior, it’s the stuff inside that counts – all of the wonderful traits that make her unique. And, I think it’s sinking in because when I read the Mother’s Day card she made me at pre-school, one of the fill-in-the-blank comments was “Why I love my Mom”. Her answer? “Because she’s got a beautiful heart.”


The Barbie “I Can Be” Campaign was created to help Moms with the task of raising their daughters so that they are smarter, stronger, happier, and more fulfilled. Visit www.bethevoice.ca and join the conversation with Canadian Parenting Coach Terry Carson (www.theparentingcoach.ca), the in-house expert who will be sharing new themes, parenting tips and ideas each month!

National “I Can Be Day” has been declared and will take place on October 27, 2011, where participating schools will be encouraging Moms to come in to speak about their careers.

Disclosure – I am participating in the Barbie I Can Be campaign by Mom Central Canada on behalf of Mattel Canada. I received compensation as a thank you for my participation. The opinions on this blog are my own. This article was originally posted by me on the Oliver’s Labels blog.

Filed Under: Parenting Tagged With: Barbie I Can Be Campaign, kids, Mom Central Canada, self-esteem

Comments

  1. Mimi says

    October 26, 2011 at 9:48 pm

    Fab post! I'm having fun reading all the different perspectives on this great "I Can Be…" Campaign.

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